';Having a bad husband is better than having no husband at all';. True or false?

Someone I know said this today.





I say it's false. I absolutely cannot believe that you *need* to have a man in your life. Why should that validate who you are as a person? It's possible to remain happy and single. Sometimes it's better that way. For example, I'd rather be single for the rest of my life than have an abusive or absent husband. Wouldn't you?





What do you think? (this question applies equally to both genders)';Having a bad husband is better than having no husband at all';. True or false?
I will admit to being lonely at times, but seriously I don't believe anyone needs a man, either bf or husband, good, bad, absent or no to validate their happiness and who they are. I think your happiness should come from within first and share that with someone else. Because to just be in a relationship and be under the false impression that you are better off than a single woman, then you are out of your mind. There are actually more women saying they are happier outside of relationships than in them at times. So that definitely proves this statement to be so very false.';Having a bad husband is better than having no husband at all';. True or false?
definately false. how cud it be beta? for sum1 that is supposed to be ur best friend and lover, treating u like ur worth nothing or not important. how is it beta? that person will never be happy as long as shes with him. my ex bf was abusive n it was very hard to leave-dont know why, but those sort of men wud blame everything on u and told you that no one else wud love u. but wen i did, i realised later how happy i was without him and it was the best decision ive ever made. im now happily married to a man who treats me like a princess.
Incredibly FALSE.





I had the bad husband, and there isn't a moment in which I'd rather have him back than be single.





Yes, I'd love to find someone to spend my life with, but I have me. If that's where this all ends up, then I'm good.
So false and so immensely harmful and cruel that it should be a felony to try to convince people of it. I agree with you completely, but I'd go further: I'd rather be dead than have an abusive spouse.
I agree with you. I think something must have been said to offend your married friend so she wanted to sting the person back so she made this comment to make them feel bad about the fact that they don't have a husband.
So FALSE. Who needs a bad husband around? I hope she wasn't referring to money. I'd rather work my butt off all day, take a bath, light some candles, listen to music, read a book %26amp; cozy up on the couch with my cats. And be single!!!
How bad could he be? if very very bad and constantly bad, of course i will agree with you. TRUE. Because no body is perfect and from time to time we all became bad person too. And everyone needs understanding and love and acceptance from our spouse.
Definitely false. That's the most ridiculous thing i have heard in a long time. Women dont need a husband, and Men shouldnt need a wife. If you want one that's great, but you shouldnt need another person....
False,false,false! I would much rather be alone have to have to put up with all the bull that comes with a bad partner. I just don't see why people do it.
False. No on deserves a bad husband. They deserve a man who cares for them deeply and loves them unconditionally.
i'd rather not be married right now.





i was once...10 years ago.





the men i meet who are my age right now seem to want a mommy, not a partner. i already raised my kids.



False.


It is best to have a good husband.


It is second best to be happy %26amp; single.
Totally agree...who wants a bad husband...single life isn't so bad. I am recently single and I love the stress free life...no worries.
False. I would rather be alone than miserable with someone else. That way if I I'm not happy I only have myself to blame :-)
I say false also. Happiness first and you can't be happy with a bad spouse.
I agree with you 1000 precent. I would rather be happy than abused and neglected.
I would rather be single and happy then married and stressed.


That's my situation and I'm glad that you asked.





So I'm with you on that 1!
tyler perry's madea would say, ';baby i can do bad all by myself'; enough said.
FALSE.
False, who would want a bad hubby?
FALSE
False
imho, there's some pretty bad spouses out there.
that is so FALSE.....it st way better to be alone then to have a relationship that is wrong!
its jus like '; Having an erring wife is better than having no wife,...
I agree with you.....no-one needs a bad husband.
i'd rather live in the forest with the sky as my roof.
false, but idont agree that u dont need to have a man or woman in ur life, u just havent found the right one yet